If your child refuses vegetables, you're certainly not alone. One of the most common concerns I hear from parents is, "My child won't eat any vegetables!" While this can be frustrating, it's important to remember that learning to enjoy vegetables is a skill that develops over time.
Many children are naturally cautious around new foods. This doesn't mean they'll never enjoy vegetables—it simply means they may need more time, patience and positive experiences.
Here are ten practical strategies that can help:
One of the biggest mistakes parents make is giving up too soon.
A child who refuses broccoli today may happily eat it in a few months' time. Continue offering vegetables regularly without pressure or expectations.
Think of every exposure as another opportunity to learn.
Avoid asking your child to "just have one bite" or rewarding them for eating vegetables.
Pressure often creates stress around food, making children even less willing to explore something unfamiliar.
Instead, allow your child to decide whether they want to interact with the food in their own way.
Learning about food isn't just about eating it.
Encourage your child to:
Look at the vegetable.
Feel its texture.
Smell it.
Listen to the sound it makes when it's snapped or bitten.
Talk about its colour or shape.
Every positive interaction helps build familiarity.
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Children learn by watching the people around them.
When they regularly see parents, siblings and friends enjoying vegetables, they begin to view them as a normal part of family meals.
There's no need to put on a performance—simply enjoy your own vegetables naturally.
A large serving of vegetables can feel overwhelming.
Instead, offer just one small piece alongside foods your child already enjoys.
Small portions reduce pressure and make new foods feel less intimidating.
Children are often more interested in foods they've helped prepare.
Depending on their age, they might:
Wash vegetables.
Stir ingredients.
Arrange vegetables on a plate.
Help choose vegetables at the supermarket.
Water herbs or vegetables in the garden.
These experiences help children become familiar with vegetables before they're expected to eat them.
Children love stories, games and imagination.
Turn vegetables into colourful characters, invent funny names, or create adventures around different foods.
Activities such as colouring pages, puzzles and food-themed games can help children develop positive feelings about vegetables long before they taste them.
When working with children I use this line all the time:
“When we mix more than one food together it changes the taste.”
One new vegetable in isolation can be a bit overwhelming. Teaming it up with one or more familiar foods can be more manageable.
Using a push or pull chopper to destroy a food into tiny pieces can be a fun activity that doesn’t require the child to touch the food.
Combining foods on a kebab stick, shredding foods together into a bolognese sauce or burrito mix, where your child sees the foods changing and mixing together can be really effective.
Success isn't only measured by eating. Celebrate achievements like:
Sitting at the table.
Touching a vegetable.
Smelling it.
Licking it.
Taking a tiny taste.
Talking about it.
Every step is progress.
Developing confidence around vegetables doesn't happen overnight.
Some children need many positive experiences before they feel comfortable tasting a new food.
Patience, consistency and encouragement are far more effective than pressure or frustration.
Remember, your role isn't to make your child eat vegetables—it's to provide regular opportunities for them to learn about them in a safe, enjoyable environment.
Children don't have to love every vegetable.
The goal is to help them become confident, curious eaters who are willing to explore a wide variety of foods over time.
Every positive experience—whether it's chopping up a carrot, helping prepare broccoli, or simply talking about peas at the dinner table—helps build familiarity and confidence.
Small steps today can lead to lifelong healthy eating habits.
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Inside you'll find:
A free copy of my eBook, A Dietitian's Guide to Stop Picky Eating
Printable Food Learning Adventure worksheets
Food-themed colouring pages
Printable games
Food Dood mealtime placemats
These activities are designed to help children become more familiar with foods through creativity, imagination and play—making every mealtime another opportunity to learn.
Thanks for reading, and stay tuned for more!